Raptophilia

More on this subject is that people do develop a taste for this fetish at a young age. Many do want the element of surprise for their victim and want someone to not know what is going on. It is not that the person necessarily wants to be raped but rather, that they desire something perhaps tab bu. It is the idea of being powerless to stop something that is in a way intriguing. A child has the "ability" to be sexually active at a very early age and when they discover they have these new feelings it becomes very confusing. They may become curious about these feelings but are incapable of asking and even ashamed. Environment does play a part in this.

Playing dress up

I love a guy who loves to dress up for me. This guy dresses up whenever he is in his place and does not go out in public dressed up. He is afraid of what his small town might say about him. He is such a cross dresser. He just loves the feel of being in the clothes and the feelings it brings when he is dressed up. I love a guy who is willing to dress up for me and willing to admit that he can dress up and tel me all about it. I feel that if he can dress up and tell someone about it then he can certainly feel comfortable with himself enough to admit that he loves doing it.