Sissy training

I love training a new sissy. There is a special thing about making sure that a sissy does what he needs to do. I love seeing a sissy wear pink panties and a pink bra. That is what makes a sissy even better. That is so sweet. I love making him even better. I make sure that he knows he needs to go out and show his sissiness to those around.

Raptophilia

More on this subject is that people do develop a taste for this fetish at a young age. Many do want the element of surprise for their victim and want someone to not know what is going on. It is not that the person necessarily wants to be raped but rather, that they desire something perhaps tab bu. It is the idea of being powerless to stop something that is in a way intriguing. A child has the "ability" to be sexually active at a very early age and when they discover they have these new feelings it becomes very confusing. They may become curious about these feelings but are incapable of asking and even ashamed. Environment does play a part in this.

Playing dress up

I love a guy who loves to dress up for me. This guy dresses up whenever he is in his place and does not go out in public dressed up. He is afraid of what his small town might say about him. He is such a cross dresser. He just loves the feel of being in the clothes and the feelings it brings when he is dressed up. I love a guy who is willing to dress up for me and willing to admit that he can dress up and tel me all about it. I feel that if he can dress up and tell someone about it then he can certainly feel comfortable with himself enough to admit that he loves doing it.

Age play call

I love when a guy calls for an age play call. There is something sweet about it. I love every bit of it. I love being a young girl, especially younger girls. Today I acted like a young tweeny girl and he loved the fact that I loved being that young girl. He asked if he was a pedo and I said he was. There was something sweet about it and that was great. I had him fuck me so hard. I treated him so well. I loved it. Treat me like that young sweet pussy that you want me to be.

PICK & MIX

WHAT YOU’LL NEED:
A bowl, two pens and two stacks of paper – one colour for him, a different one for you.

HOW TO PLAY:
Grab your pile of paper and write down things you’ve always wanted him to do in bed, then ask him to do the same. Include a range of ideas, from “Caress my breasts” to “Talk dirty” to “Go down on me”.

Fold them up into squares and drop them into a bowl before mixing well. Now, pick one each and follow the instructions. Keep going until the bowl is completely empty.

Ideas for your bowl of lurve:
For her
• Jump in for a double shower
• Give me a hand massage, then suck each finger in turn
• Use my vibrator on me

For Him
• Blow, suck and lick my neck
• Dress up in sexy lingerie
• Masturbate for me

Why you’ll love it:
You’re in for a very sexy surprise – plus an insight into each other’s biggest turn-ons.

THE MILKER

Make a ring around the base of your penis with your well-lubricated right hand’s thumb and forefinger, and slide it up along the shaft. When the ring reaches the head, make a ring around the base of your penis with your well-lubricated left hand, and work it up. Repeat the process when your left “ring” reaches the head of your penis. The idea is to go up without ever going down. You can use only the thumb and forefinger or add the other fingers as you get away from the base.

Checking-in

Asking the submissive how they are doing, feeling, etc. during a scene. Specific questions get more useful answers. An affirmative response to "Are you ok?" may merely indicate that death is not impending, but there still may be problems, particularly with a macho sub. "Would you enjoy heavier (or lighter) sensations?" is a better question. In SM play "is this good for you?" is asked during a scene rather than the typical "was it good for you?"afterwards. Checking-in should not replace a dominant's own observation and focus, it is another part of the safety net.

BEACH BLANKET BINGO

You need: A big towel or blanket and a bottle of massage oil or cream.

How to play: Spread your towel on the bed or carpet and grease each other up with massage oil -- legs, torso, breasts, everywhere. Now roll around for awhile and see what happens.

Why: You will really be surprised at the difference a little lubricant makes in the feeling of skin on skin. Sure, it's a little messy. But worth it.

Variation: If you have a favorite secluded spot, this is fun to do outdoors, even on your own patio.

Tip: Don't put mint or eucalyptus oil on sensitive genital areas. But if you have a nonirritating lubricant, greasing up the sexual equipment can be part of the fun.

Note: Oil-based lubricants, including massage oil, can degrade latex. So don't play this game if you're using condoms or a diaphragm.

Ways to humiliate a guy and have fun doing it

Love to humiliate a guy? I know I do. That is what makes that job so much fun. Guys open themselves up to it and pay me to do it. I love it so much. Here are some ways that I humiliate guys.

Reduction to Human animal roleplay or human pet, referring to these individuals as pet, dog, girl, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.

· Verbal belittlement, such as "slave", "boy", "girl", "missy", "pet".

· Insults and verbal abuse, such as "fat", "ugly", "stupid", "worthless".

· Degrading references, such as "slut", "tart", "bitch", and "whore".

· Racial or ethnic slurs

· Slighting of body parts or behaviors, such as disparaging or cruel references to breasts, facial appearance, genitalia or genital size, bottom, and slighting of mannerisms such as walking, responsiveness, standard of self-care.

· Having to ask permission for everyday activities such as going to the toilet, spending money or eating.

· Small breasts humiliation, where scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the adult female's breasts, or her inability to please a lover, and her breasts become objects of derision.

· Small penis humiliation, where scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the adult male's genitals, or his inability to please a lover, and his penis becomes an object of derision.

· Forced repetition, such as being obliged to repeat back commands to confirm them.

· Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant's physical and personality traits.

· Mockery, derision, and ridicule.

· Being scolded like a child